I want to sneeze and get pregnant. To have the honor of being a mother, since there are so many women who could give a rats ass about their children. Mother is a sacred name, something you have to earn. Just because you have a child doesn't make you a mother, any more then having a car makes you a racecar driver (we can pretend all we want but the reality of it is it is showed by the actions we make and the skills that we have) Doesn't work that way.   
On adoption.....strong opinions, viewer discreation is advised!
To those of you that have babies and give them up because you are just to selfish.  You do NOT reserve the right to see that child again. To that child you are non other then an incubator! You were an oven when they were a bun. You are not their mother, you knowingly and willingly gave them to the government to have a worse life then you could have given them. (I am talking about people that have unprotected sex knowing they could get pregnant and can't take care of it and don't care) I really can not stand hearing about a so called "mother" searching for her child she (((gave up))) because she was to lazy to take birth control or have him wear a condom. That childs mother is who ever raised them! Leave them alone and let them be.  What makes a mother is what she does after birth, not carrying the child.
Moral of the opinion. Don't have sex unless you are able to care for a child, no excuses. You have sex, you create a life. And DO NOT piss off a person who is trying so damn hard to have a baby when you don't care about your own.